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Rehearsing Is Not For Cowards

Can someone arrange for Seth Godin to appear in an opera somewhere? Surely one of my US readers has a connection that could make this happen?

You see, Seth Godin posted back in September that rehearsing was for cowards.

Going over and over the same material in case something unexpected happens…well, it kills the adventure, right? The discovery of the new and the fresh get squashed under the weight of all that droning preparation.

Evidently I need to put Seth through his paces…

How about a five-act operatic monsterpiece with flying sets, huge costumes that can knock a co-star over with a mere swish, a shuffling mass of chorus singers, gothic stage hands, a dark sweaty pit full of slightly tipsy brass and fiddle players and the occasionally mesmeric conductor. (That is an exaggeration, but there nestles a tiny grain of truth somewhere within. Go hunting.)

Because rehearsing isn’t just desirable, it’s a brutal necessity in the stage game. In fact I spend more time rehearsing that I ever do actually on stage performing. (And that doesn’t even begin to count the hours I chew simply musing over a piece.)

In fact, rehearsing for me is the best part.

As a performer,  rehearsing is where the exploration takes place. I slip under the skin of a new character, try it on, clumsily play with all the moving parts until I find a grace and an empathy.

There is also the kind of technical rehearsal that must happen if you want to avoid being crushed by changing scenery. Or where it’s important that you stand in a specific place for the spotlight.

And you only achieve the musical coordination and brilliant comedy of say, the end of Act 2 of Mozart’s “The Marriage of Figaro” by rehearsing the hell out of it.

Which is where I think Seth misses the point.

Rehearsing is not for cowards. Rehearsing something – going over and over until it’s in your bones and your blood and you could do it in your sleep – is pretty damn essential.

The real terror lies in the execution.

You rehearse to put yourself in a position of trust. And trust is the leap that you have to take to make all that rehearsing worthwhile.

When that heavy red curtain finally rises, I’m not thinking about where I have to stand, or when I have to look at the maestro – but these actions – which I have rehearsed – become part of the flow of who I am on stage. I’m fully immersed in my character and the story, and it’s the flow that matters, not the technique behind it.

I trust that I have done enough, and my discoveries in performance become the magic that plays along the bones of my rehearsal process. This preparation gives strength and support to the flow.

A brilliant and intelligent musician will not show you the technique – the hours and hours and hours and hours of solitary confinement in a tiny practice room with fingertips so worn they are calloused and peeling – but when they get the chance, they will show you the heart, and the sob, and the channelling of something so profound it is truly ineffable.

If you use endless rehearsing as an excuse for procrastinating and avoiding “shipping’ your work, this is avoiding the trust as well.

Make the leap. Trust that you know enough. That you’ve done the work.

Making the leap will let you know if the rehearsing you put in was enough. It will show you how to rehearse better, to prepare more fully so that the next time you leap, it will be higher, faster, stronger, more fervent and less fearful.

Rehearsing is for visionaries. But leaping is for the truly courageous.

12 Comments

  • Megan Matthieson October 8, 2010 at 11:53 am

    Yes! Well, let’s face it. Seth does not know our world. I’ve spent my life in rehearsal. And even now…it’s all the preparing- these are our 10,000 hours! This is how we get PAID to do what we do. But still – yes- the moment of trust. And then dive. Right? Love your blog. Come visit mine sometime!

    • Natalie October 8, 2010 at 8:54 pm

      This is especially true for you, Megan. All of that discipline and practice (and dare I say it, torture!) And you’re preparing so that when the time comes, you can touch your knee to your cheek (eek!) and keep a graceful Swan-like smile!

      And thanks for the prod – I dig your blog too. :)

  • Desolie October 8, 2010 at 2:14 pm

    Ohh, Natalie – that practice is so important.

    And didn’t I notice it recently when I’d not practised a presentation I gave to a group of writers. ‘I know my stuff,’ said me. But … what a shaky start. They must have wondered what they’d let themselves in for.

    But I kept on going, t finally all came together and those lovely people responded with some interesting questions and comments.

    So never again will I not rehearse before I speak. Then I’ll know for sure that I can dive right in and trust myself.

    Thanks for relating your performance experience to my very ordinary life.

    Desolie

    • Natalie October 8, 2010 at 8:59 pm

      Welcome Desolie!

      I doubt very much that your life is very ordinary (and what magic lies nestled in there anyway!) but yes, the value of rehearsing really kicks in when you know your stuff like the back of your hand but you need help hanging it all together in a coherent and focused way. That’s what I like to teach my speaking clients – that it’s not about erasing the spontaneity from your presentation, but creating a set of swings for you to leap from one at a time, like a circus performer, free to spin and play in the air but safe in the knowledge you have a net beneath you!

  • Janette October 8, 2010 at 4:49 pm

    Yes yes yes!!!! Nuff said. :-)

    • Natalie October 8, 2010 at 8:59 pm

      Hey Janette! Lovely to see you, hope you’ve fully recovered now? x

  • Sinclair October 8, 2010 at 5:51 pm

    Well, you KNOW I adore this. I’d love to see entrepreneurs look at their rehearsals as “building for the leap” instead of “falling short of the mark.”
    Perhaps you and I should do something to help them out with that. ;)

    Favorite part:
    “The trust is the leap that you have to take to make all that rehearsing worthwhile.

    When that heavy red curtain finally rises, I’m not thinking about where I have to stand… it becomes part of the flow of who I am on stage. I’m fully immersed in my character and the story, and it’s the flow that matters, not the technique behind it.”

    Off to go trust my technique, and be in the flow of the moment.

    • Natalie October 8, 2010 at 9:16 pm

      Flow, baby! Flow is totally the answer, that’s for sure. I have a great call somewhere with a fellow flow junkie that I must share with you soon…

  • Romilly October 29, 2010 at 2:20 am

    Wow. I just found you. We just did our last rehearsal for a bellydance show on Saturday… at least the last GROUP rehearsal. I’m still going to need to do a couple runs on my own after finding that my costume still needs a couple of tweaks – most importantly, the hem is WAY too long (it grew when the feathers were added…)

    What you say is SO true. We rehearse to experiment. Then we leap. A couple of our troupe members were saying, “I love the rehearsal process… then the performance date looms and I wonder yet again, ‘why do I do this to myself?’” The show will be different. Someone will drop a veil if we’re using them. I’ll probably trip over my gown at some point. But without the rehearsal it would have been inevitable.

    And now I’m off to think about how I can add rehearsal time to my stitching business. :) Thank you for giving me a way of thinking about this that I hadn’t thought of… and probably should have! :D

    • Natalie October 29, 2010 at 6:56 am

      Yes! And isn’t it interesting how the rehearsal process is often fulfilling for a completely different reason than the performance part? We get so much more out of the process – the finite nature of it helps (only 3 weeks to put this together!!) but the exploring and the stuffing-up is where we get to challenge ourselves to go deeper, play more, be braver.

      Perhaps for your biz you can start to rehearse the story you want to tell about who you are, why you are offering yourself as a “performance” for your clients and your network – in the same way, people are coming to you for something special. Start framing a way to give it to them consistently but with room for expansion and playfulness, just as you would want to do in performance. :)

  • Renita Kalhorn December 23, 2010 at 10:11 am

    Did someone mention flow??? *ears twitching* :-)

    “A well-rehearsed performance will go without a hitch. An explorer seeks the hitches, because hitches are the fissures and chasms that help us leap forward.”

    Boy, did Seth get it wrong this time. There are hitches and then there are HITCHES. Does he know, for example, how many potential tempi there are for any given piece of music? Rehearsals help soloist and orchestra (in my case) make sure they are on the same page so they can leap TOGETHER. Finishing at the same time is good too. ;-)

  • Paula Lee Bright December 27, 2010 at 8:43 pm

    I so agree with you, and disagree with Seth. But I suspect his “performances” aren’t the same type as you and I are referring to. (To be honest, for me, he’s a tad off-base often these days. I think he’s had to write for too long! Look at me, criticizing royalty! heh…)

    I came to your place here, I stayed forever, and I will be back. What a find you are! I’ll enjoy watching your star rise, for sure. :)

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